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Financial abuse

Elder Abuse

It's a sad fact that older people are vulnerable to ill treatment – especially in societies where poverty, crime and unemployment create hardship and frustration. Older persons are mugged, raped and even killed for their pension, and neglect is on the increase.

Elder abuse can take place in the home, at the hands of spouses, adult children and even grandchildren. It also happens in institutions such as hospitals or nursing homes – and can range from swearing or yelling at the victim to slapping, kicking or shoving them, or stealing their belongings.

Emotional abuse
Other forms of abuse are less obvious but equally damaging. For example: ignoring the elderly person; not giving them enough food or drink; isolating them from friends; humiliating them, leaving them dirty or abandoning them for hours on the toilet. The caregiver might intentionally 'forget' their medication, or administer an overdose.

Financial abuse
Financial abuse occurs not only in impoverished families where an elderly relative's pension may be stolen. Within affluent families, a vulnerable senior may be forced to change his or her Will or hand over power of attorney. Or unnecessary goods and services may be ordered - and paid for out of the elderly person's account.

Identifying elder abuse can be difficult. Bruises and broken bones can easily be the result of a genuine fall. Elderly Alzheimer's patients often believe people are trying to harm them and wrongfully accuse caregivers of ill treatment or theft.

Conversely, a victim may keep quiet about the abuse - especially if they are afraid, or dependent on the abuser for food, shelter and care.

If you suspect an older person is being abused, contact the Chief Social Worker at the Social Development office or police station nearest to where you live.

Alternatively, report the abuse anonymously to HEAL (Halt Elder Abuse line) at 0800 003 081.


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Signs and symptoms

Signs that an older person may be suffering abuse are difficult to spot; bruising, for example, can easily be caused by natural frailty or mental deterioration, and caregivers may explain them that way. The elderly person may deny the abuse for fear of further retaliation.

However, you should be suspicious if you notice:

  • frequent arguments/tension between the caregiver and the elderly person;
  • changes in personality of the elderly person;
  • broken bones, bruises or welts;
  • broken spectacles;
  • drug overdose or failure to take regular medication (pills left over at the end of the month);
  • signs of being restrained, e.g. rope marks on wrists;
  • unusual weight loss;
  • utreated physical conditions, such as bed sores;
  • being left dirty or soiled;
  • being dressed in unsuitable clothing, e.g. no jersey or warm socks on a cold day.